On a crisp autumn day in Scarsdale, Gitta Silberstein keeps
busy – part of her identity crystalized from millions of moments over a
lifetime.
"I must honestly tell you for years I never talked
about my past," she told News 12.
What you don't see is her terrifying start to life in
Nazi-controlled Poland where Jews were being exterminated. Her father was
murdered when she was just 1 years old. Her mother immediately took Silberstein
on a 150-mile two-year journey to find anyone to hide them.
The woman who did take them in soon gave Silberstein’s
mother a choice. She could stay, but Silberstein, who had been drawing
attention from nosy neighbors, could not. The punishment for hiding Jews in
Poland was death.
To live, they had to be apart. That’s when Silberstein’s
life changed. Wanda Tazbir, an open-minded, devoutly Catholic teenager, agreed
to take her into the home where she lived with her parents. But to do so, she
had to give up her name and learn Catholicism. She was now Barbara.
"I was crying and I was saying all the time, ‘I don't
want to be Barbara. I want to stay myself,’" she told News 12.
But Wanda, all of 19 years old, knew it was the only way to
protect Silberstein.
"In general, hiding her here was very difficult because
in the yard of our house, there was a five-meter-high house that was the home
of the Warsaw University of Life Sciences,” said Tazbir in a 1997 interview.
Nazi’s had occupied that building and the streets
surrounding the home.
One day, when they thought the Germans saw Silberstein, she
had to leave again. Tazbir's family placed her in a Catholic orphanage, hiding
in plain sight like other Jewish children. When the allied forces bombed
Warsaw, she was sent to a convent in southern Poland.
That’s where she waited until 1945 when the war ended.
Silberstein and her mother then reunited. She credited Tazbir for saving her
life.
Silberstein 's mother eventually remarried and they moved
from France to Germany, then to Israel. Silberstein became a doctor and
eventually moved to Westchester.
As for Tazbir, the Russian occupation of Poland after the
war didn’t make life easy. Her income was very minimal.
But she made an enormous impact. A statue of her stands in
Warsaw because of the countless children she helped at the Institute for the
Deaf.
A continent away, she stayed active in Silberstein's life.
They became pen pals and Silberstein would send her money.
"She said later that's what kept her going during that
time," she told News 12.
Silberstein invited Tazbir to stay with her for month at a
time. In 2006, Tazbir died. She lives on at the Holocaust Museum in Israel
where Silberstein had a tree planted in her honor.
She never married. She had no children. But her legacy lives
on.